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How to you respond to stress?

Stress at work is a stimulant. I produce better under pressure. As far as stress in my personal life, over the years I have acquired lots of coping techniques, so I can handle it without being overcome by it.

Jane, 60
West Linn
, OR   USA

I gain weight, smoke more cigarettes, and white canker sores form in my mouth.

Melodi, 19
Gahanna
, OH   USA

Well, I'm trying not to have so many panic attacks.  Sometimes I just shut down. I get depressed easily. Blah, I don't like this question, I don't want to think about stress.

etoile, 20
Washington
, DC  USA

I handle stress very well while the situation demands. However, after the   fact...after all is said and done and things get back to normal, I can always count on some physical reaction. Depending on the depth of the stress, this these physiological "aftershocks" vary from a severe 24-48 hour rip-snortin' migraine to a mild skin rash to a generally lethargic attitude toward everything and everyone. It's like my body's way of saying "okay, I did what had to get done, now everyone leave me alone."

Fisch, 45
Preston
, CT  USA

I try to remember what the Stoics...and the Golden Sayings of Epitecticus (sp) said....it puts everything in persepective....or, to use a more modern example, I try to remember how Morrie Schwarts delt with his terminal illness in Tuesdays with Morrie.

Mick, 30
Chicago
, IL   USA

I tend to scream and/or break stuff. I'm not good at dealing with stress at all. Sometimes I just go for a nice long drive and try not to think about it all-that helps.

Angela, 16
Aiken
, SC   USA

I HAVE A HARD TIME WHEN UNDER STRESS. I AM GUICK TO ANSWER SOMEONE AND CAN BE VERY IRRITABLE. BUT I TRY TO GET THROUGH BY LISTENING TO GOSPEL SONGS AND PRAYING. THEN THINGS DON'T SEEM TO BE AS BAD AS THEY HAD LOOKED.

Marci, 56
Diamond
, OH   USA

Well, thank goodness but I have no stress in my life. Bills and family used to stress me out but what is the point? When I die, and god says what did you do with your life, I don't want to say I fretted and stressed about other people's problems and paying bills. Don't get me wrong I pay my bills and help out family and friends but I don't let it take over my life enough to stress me out.

Stephanie, 25
TX  USA

I usually become irritable and withdrawn, and I get physical pains in my lower back for some reason. However, after a long hot bath I always feel tonnes better.

Shanna, 16
Cardiff  ENGLAND

Under extreme stress I begin to close down and become inactive / immobile. Mild stress goes to my jaw, neck and shoulders and is living there right now.

Felicia, 35
Lowell
, MA   USA

I get annoyed and snap at people and try to put it out of my mind for awhile.

Katie, 25
Seminole
, FL   USA

I usually just sit back, relax and try to clear my head. Put on some music and pretend the rest of the world is a million miles away.

Jennifer, 19
Wilkes-Barre
, PA  USA

I work very well under pressure, providing that no one is standing in the way, demanding undue amounts of personal attention.

Jill, 60
Saylorsburg
, PA  USA

Usually by getting angry and then getting whateverneeds to be done, done.

Maria

My lower back gets really tight and I clench my teeth. Usually I boss people around and snap at people.

Laura, 36
Lowell
, MA   USA

Hahaha--that is such a funny question right now. I think I'm doing okay at the moment. But you never know what will happen.

Karen, 21
Marshelltown/Ames
, IA  USA

I like to think that there is little stress in my life but I guess I'm wrong. I've read that both arthritis and asthma are stress-based diseases and I have both of them. So you might say that that is how I react.

Reba, 51
Rockville
, MD   USA

i hit or run or change my life somehow

Mel

Usually my eye twitches, hehe. But for real, I eat(candy. . .lots of candy), watch TV or movie, deal with the problem directly, cry, complain to friends, kick the wall, do something super athletic, or do ceramics.

Eric, 19
Beverly Hills
, CA  USA

Depends what's available to me at the time. If the weather's good I'll walk it off. If it isn't I'll do some writing. A couple beers usually don't hurt, either.

Alias Irrelevante

Hmm... well, I usually go to my room and stay there until I cool down, or go to someone for help. Most of my stress is school related, so someone can usually help me.

Jeremy, 14
Highlands Ranch
, CO  USA

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