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Do
you believe in love at first sight?Love at first sight seems to me to be a shallow concept; for
that is love based on appearance alone, not personality. I suppose its not impossible; It
just seems like it wouldnt really work.
Talia, 23
Wilton, CT
USA
Oh, absolutely!
Firelady, 23
Dallas, TX
USA
No... I believe you can have lust at first
sight, be phsically attracted to a person, i don't believe you can be in love with someone
without getting to know them.
Dianne, 16
Oshawa, Ontario CANADA
"...yes I'm certain that it happens all
the time." (That's all I can come up with, too tired to give a real answer this
morning.)
etoile, 20
Washington, DC USA
I believe in Sasquatch, I believe I
am going to be aducted by Aliens (although that is
probably wishful thinking), I believe in the Lochness Monster, and I believe in Lust at
First Sight, not love.
Mick, 30
Chicago, IL
USA
I don't think there is "Love" at
first sight but I beleive its possible to know that there is something amazing about this
person and you know that person will be around awhile upon first meeting.
Stephanie, 25
TX USA
Absolutely! Every serious relationship I've
had has begun with a recognizable spark. That doesn't mean you don't have to work at
building enduring bonds, but without that first mysterious chemical reaction, the
potential isn't there.
Jane, 60
West Linn, OR
USA
Not when it comes to people. Cars,
paintings, bodies sure. But not people.
Alias Irrelevante
I believe in a connection at first sight, or
lust at first sight, but not love. Love is a deep connection,respect, and history.
Katie2, 18
Detroit, MI
USA
No. It isn't "love" that
people feel at first sight, it is just attraction. Something
about the person draws you in. True love takes a long time to develop.
Maggie, 20
Sandwich, IL
USA
No, I believe that you can see someone and
be attracted to them and want to get to know them more, and "think" that you and
them could be more than you are right then. But I do not believe that you can love someone
w/out knowing them. Probably because it has never happend to me.
Anjel, 19
No.
Laura, 36
Lowell, MA
USA
If you call the phenomenon
"infatuation", yes. Love is a more complex emotion.
Jill, 60
Saylorsburg, PA USA
It's a nice fantasy, but in practice it
seems to be based mostly on illusion. I do believe in chemistry and intuition and instinct
when applied to relationships. But the head should be listened to as much as the heart and
love is something that grows and develops.
Felicia, 35
Lowell, MA
USA
Yeah.
Eric, 18
Beverly Hills, CA USA
right now, I don't even know if I
believe in love, period.
Jaden, 21
Brampton, Ontario CANADA
No. I think that love at first sight is just
falling in love with someone's looks.
Angela, 16
Aiken, SC
USA
Nope.
A-Dog, 18
McMinnville, OR USA
Yes, I truly do. Because i have had
it happen. It was wonderful....but ended in heartbreak,
and a good friendship...
Adrianne, 15
FL USA
Sure I do...why not!
Tracy, 24
Ocean City, NJ USA
i believe in lust at first site, not love.
jenn, 18
Milwaukee, MI
USA
I do believe love at first sight. When it is
towards the right person though.
Jason, 21
Oneanta, NY
USA
*shrug* It's never happened to me. But I
guess it's possible.
Karen, 21
Marshelltown/Ames, IA USA
Tricky question for me. I met the
love of my life, my current fiance, on the
internet. We "talked" for three months prior to meeting face to face. We had
each developed feelings for one another before we ever met. By the time we did have our
first live date, I was completely sure it wouldn't be a total flop, but wasn't certain if
the physical chemistry would be what I'd hoped. It was all that and more, even after
just a long drive and then a walk through the zoo. So for me, yes...I do believe in love
at first sight. In general, I think it's more like infatuation or strong attraction at
first sight, which usually leads to more
dating and sometimes a lastingrelationship if nurtured with care.
Fisch, 45
Preston, CT
USA
no, not really. . .I believe in lust at
first sight. . .
mothmc, 36
Los Angeles, CA USA
Well, maybe you can look at a person
and say "Wow, I think I'm in love"...but you can't really love a person until
you've met them and know them. I mean, you could see a
really beautiful woman walking down the street and think you're in love, and then see
another woman who wasn't as beautiful, and she could turn out to be the one for you.
Everyone always goes by what they see, and I think that everyone should learn how to get
to know someone before judging them.
Jeremy, 13
Highlands Ranch, CO USA
I
wouldn't say I don't believe in it. But, personally, it hasn't ever happened to me, and
probably won't. I guess I'm just not one of those people. Now, I have fallen in lust at
first sight but that's about all.
Lisa J., 22
TN USA
I think so. You can be incredibly attracted
or drawn to someone at first site and not know why.
Janet, 42
E. Brunswick, NJ USA
Nope. How
can you fall in love with someone you don't know? Like they say, "Beauty is only skin
deep".
Kevin2, 18
Frazier Park, CA USA
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