January 23, 2002
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What sorts of decisions are hard for you to make?

What to have for lunch :P

Talia, 24
Wilton
, CT   USA

I'm not an indecisive person. If I have enough information, I can usually make a decision quickly.

Laura, 37
Lowell
, MA   USA

Working with the kids I'm still having problems with enforcing rules I don't  believe in. I still have to get it into my head that the enforcement of the rules isn't my decision.

Alias Irrelevante

any of them. i hate being the decision maker. the only time i take over is when all my other friends are being so indecisive that they begin to fight.

Tracy, 24
Ocean City
, NJ  USA

Little ones. I can debate for ages over which outfit to wear or what to serve a guest. When it comes to important decisions, though, I usually am pretty clear as to what is the right move.

Jane, 62
West Linn
, OR   USA

Any decision that could have a major impact on my relationship(s) or my future are probably the hardest ones for me to make.

Angela, 18
Bella Vista
, AR  USA

Whether or not to keep a relationship or friendship that is going down the tubes

Melodi, 19
Gahanna
, OH   USA

I find it easy to make decisions, but difficult to implement decisions that mean changing my habits. I dread making decisions that involve unwilling or unable people.

Jill, 61
Saylorsburg
, PA  USA

All of them.

Jonathan, 19
Brevard
, NC   USA

the hardest types of decision to me are the type when you have to choose it could be between friends or between family but choosing in its self is never easy because its never a win win situation

Alesha, 15
NJ  USA

Right now I'm making my college choices. I have no idea where I want to go; so many colleges are appealing to me. It's a very difficult decision. Really, though, most decisions are hard for me to make. I'm an indecisive person.

Johanna, 18
OK  USA

break ups and changing jobs are also hard for me to decide

Nicole2, 20
FL
  USA

No decisions are hard for me to make as I have to make all of them. Small ones or major ones. Hubby doesn't have an opinion on anything!

Laney
TX  USA

I hate making decisions period. The ones that are hardest for me to make are the easiest, like where to go for lunch. If I'm by myself, I have no problem, but when I go to lunch with a friend, forget it. We sit and talk about 50 different places before we make a decision, and even then its usually whatever is closest to the car at that particular moment.

Nicci, 27
Las Vegas
, NV   USA

I will retire in a few years and my husband and I will travel in a motorhome to all the parks and wildlife refuges we have always wanted to see. Oh, we've got big plans! We don't have much money and the hardest decision for me has been whether or not to "live for today" and spend our money going the places and doing the things we want now or saving our money for when we retire and having it easier and doing more things then. A few people I know have said that saving their money for 'later' was the worst thing they did, because when 'later' came they were too sick or old to enjoy it. Others say just the opposite.

Reba, 50+
Silver Spring
, MD  USA

Just the little stuff, like what to buy, what to write, what to say, how to say it...the liost goes on, but you getc my drift.

Derya

I can't decide how to answer that. But seriously--what I'm going to do in the immediate future (watch a movie, play a game, whatever), what I'm going to eat for my next meal, stuff like that.

Karen, 22
Ames
, IA   USA

Decisions about money, other peoples problems and sometimes my own problems are hard for me to make.

Christina
MI  USA

Those that pitch finances against emotion and other similar quandaries

Firelady, 23
Dallas
, TX   USA

I don't like change. So quitting a job and finding another is difficult.

Janet, 44
E. Brunswick
, NJ  USA

Anything that will result in no wins for anyone are difficult.

Felicia, 36
Lowell
, MA   USA

Decisions that will directly affect someone other than myself.

Fisch, 46
Preston
, CT   USA

I can pretty much make small everyday decisions, but the big ones, those are hard. Then again, sometimes I have a hard time with those small everyday decisions. Right now, I'm having a hard time deciding whether or not I have a hard time with small everyday decisions. I guess I just gave it away: every decision is hard for me....pretty bad..huh?

Lisa J., 23
TN  USA

The decisions I call moral.

Eric, 19
Beverly Hills
, CA  USA

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